Relationships, Part 1

Don’t stress yourself out to find a relationship.
I made this mistake my first couple years in college.
I got dumped the moment I got to WVU by my high school boyfriend.
To this day...I can't quite figure out why I dated him in the first place. Hence, a lesson learned.
ANYWAYS..
Your freshman year...you meet SO MANY PEOPLE.
I met a lot of guys...and I always caught myself thinking:

"Is he relationship worthy?"

Ok. Stop right there. 

That is where I went wrong and it took me four years to figure it out.

I should have been thinking:

"What ever happens, happens."

This isn't the time to worry about relationships. It's the time to start making friendships and focusing on your classes & grades.

High school and college are SOOO different. You actually have to work hard to maintain a good GPA. 

A relationship is going to 'just happen' if it’s supposed to. 
Who are you kidding? 
Guys are still extremely immature at this age…no offense guys. They just want to party and have fun. But who can blame them?
90% of girls want the same thing.
But when the additional 10% of girls start talking about wanting to start settling down-- that scares them. 
You have the rest of your life after graduation to find the perfect person.
The moment I sat back and stopped caring-- and let it all just play out--everything fell into place for me.
I'm the happiest I have ever been at this exact moment.
(The reason this is labeled Part 1 is because I have seen and personally dealt with a lot in regards to relationships...and more advice will be coming in time.)


Xoxo-
Kels